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March 23, 2017

Share Your Black Southern Belle Bride Story on TV!

Michiel Perry / Love & Dating / black bride, black southern belle, brides, family, southern bride, southern family, southern weddings, weddings / 0 Comments

Planning a southern wedding and want to tell your story on TV? We have the perfect opportunity for you, courtesy of Lucky8 TV, which is a major television production company. Here are the details:

Engaged couples who appear between the ages of 18-25, who are getting married this year and planning their dream wedding with a budget over $50k
Extravagant Wedding Planners and Brides of all ages. Seeking experts who specialize in creating beautiful and unique wedding celebrations with extravagant and over-the-top details and the couples who are planning these weddings!
If you’re excited to share the details of your big event for a fun new series, we want to hear from you! Email us at CASTING@LUCKY8.TV with your name, contact info, wedding date/location and a few details about your wedding plans.

We hope you share your story with them and with that in mind, here are a few of my favorite points from my Black Southern Belle wedding:

1)Church Wedding -This was one of the most special parts of my wedding, especially being married at Emanuel AME

2)Horse and Carriage (It was a surprise so hence my crazy face but still a great time)

3)Traditional Wedding Gown and My mom’s veil (20 Lbs at that, please don’t wear heels in this size of a dress, I already made that mistake for you. And getting to wear my mom’s veil made it all worth it. The pearls were the perfect addition to my dress and something I will always cherish. )

4)My Dad Walking Me down the Aisle. Every Southern girl dreams of this moment and my dad had so much fun wedding planning so walking down the aisle was icing on the cake. Not to mention he said it was like a pageant moment for him too. Definitely a great memory.

5)Best Bridesmaids and Mom Ever: These ladies are the best. They are stylish, I mean look at those dresses (fabric and color were my choice of course :)) And then having my mom by my side was all I needed besides my groom of course!

If you want to share your story while you plan your wedding and fit the following description.

All images by Sean Money & Elizabeth Fay

**This is a sponsored post but all opinions are mine.**

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March 9, 2017

10 Types of Stationery for A Black Southern Belle Bride and Groom

Michiel Perry / Home Decor & Fashion, Love & Dating, Uncategorized / african american bride, black bride, black southern bell, black southern belle, bridal stationery, engagement, hbcu bride, invitations, paper goods, southern, southern stationery, stationery, wedding / 0 Comments

Are you recently engaged bride and getting ready to pick out your stationery? Creations by Sasha is here to help. Whether you want your stationery to match your personal style, your HBCU or your sorority, her tips have you covered. These are not only great tips for wedding stationery but any personal event in your life, so go ahead and start planning those birthdays, baby showers and anniversary and make sure to have some beautiful stationery included and you can’t go wrong adding a monogram no matter what your style 🙂

The Perfect Wedding Stationery for Every Couple

It can be hard to decide exactly what type of stationery you want for your big day. At Creations By Sasha, we’re all about reflecting what we call your “couple style” – the style that you want to represent your love for each other and your wedding day. Below are 10 types of couples and the perfect stationery to match.

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The Artistic Couple

Unique shapes and watercolors are prefect for the couple that loves art! Lotus envelopes are different and add an unexpected touch while watercolor designs are perfect for the couple who wants to utilize color over a specific theme.

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The Romantic Couple

Delicate florals and a soft color palette are the perfect way to get that romantic feeling going for your big day. Think French countryside or wine country to help draw inspiration.

The Tropical Couple

If you love bright, bold colors and Caribbean islands, let your wedding stationery speak for your love of all tropical. Think fun fonts, bright colors and island floral and fauna to really get that island feeling.

The Glitz and Glam Couple

Laser cut invites with gold glitter envelope liners are perfect for the couple that want to add bling to their big day. Let your guests know from the moment they open their invite that they are in for a glamorous evening!

The Rustic Couple

Nothing says rustic more than wood grain and lace. If you’re thinking of having your wedding in a barn or at a countryside venue and dream of mason jars, this this type of invitation will invoke that feeling from the start.

The Nature-Loving Couple

You can have nature inspired invites without going rustic! If you’re the couple that loves the outdoors but doesn’t want that traditional rustic look, think of incorporating greenery or you favorite outdoor space as illustrations for your wedding invites.

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The Nautical Couple

If you’re getting married on the beach or just want to feel like you are, nautical inspired invitations are the perfect look for your wedding day. A custom anchor monogram can even be used throughout your wedding stationery to keep that ocean theme going.

The “Different” Couple

Who said wedding invitations have to all be the same size or shape. If you’re that couple that’s a little different from the rest, think outside the box and get stationery that speaks to you! These record invites were for a couple that loved music and wanted it to be a part of their big day.

The City-Loving Couple

If you love the city or want to showcase the place where you fell in love, laser cut invites with a cityscape view of your favorite place are the perfect way to show your city some love.

The Couple Getting Married During the Holidays

Not every holiday wedding has to be red and green or versions of silver and gold. Think of how to incorporate other holiday elements (like pinecones) into your stationery to reflect the season without being cliché.

Ready to get started on your own stationery? You can begin the process of designing your own custom wedding stationery with Creations By Sasha by visiting our website.

March 30, 2016

Southern Couple Ties the Knot in Birmingham

Michiel Perry / Love & Dating / Alabama weddings, Birmingham bride, birmingham weddings, Black Alabama weddings, black bride, black southern belle, fall southern weddings, Navy weddings, southern belle / 0 Comments

Shawntia and Jason met in San Antonio, Texas when they least expected to find love. After one and half years of bliss, they decided to make their love official in the bride’s hometown of Birmingham, Alabama.

Bride Name:

Shawntia Gordon

Groom Name:

Jason McNeil

Wedding Location:

Bessemer/Birmingham, AL

Wedding Date:

November 7, 2015

Alma Mater of Bride:

Tennessee State University

Alma Mater of Groom:

Texas A&M University

Current City where you live:

San Antonio, Texas

Bride Hometown:

Birmingham, Alabama

Groom Hometown;

San Antonio, Texas

How did you meet?

Jason and I met in San Antonio! We were definitely not the typical couple you would expect to be married now! I was all about career, traveling, and being independent better known as “STUBBORN” and Jason was all about his motorcycles! However, over time the two of us soon found out that we had more in common than we thought!

How long did you date?

We met in February 2013 and dated for 1 and a half years.

How did he propose?

The closer he and I got the more I wondered about a pending engagement. I imagined on the day he proposed that I would be dressed immaculately, flawless makeup, and perfect hair! Well, needless to say, this was not the proposal I received. However, the proposal I received was well thought out and definitely memorable! On September 2, 2014, it was 100 degrees outside and we had just closed on our first home. As I approached the door, Jason asked me to stop and told me he wanted my mother to take a picture of us in front of the house. As my mother pretended to take a photo, Jason began to profess how far we had come and our love. I couldn’t hear a word he was saying because I was distracted by my mother, whom was telling me to smile for the camera and I was slowly melting in the sweltering heat, before I could say “Mom, seriously!?” I turned around and Jason was on his knee proposing! Shocked! Although, I was wearing no makeup and a t-shirt and jeans, I couldn’t have been happier!

When did you know he was the one?

I realized Jason was the one for me when I actually decided not to relocate from San Antonio. I have never considered staying in one place for longer than three years until I met Jason.

What is the cutest thing he has done for you without you asking?

The cutest thing Jason has done without me asking has been keeping the “spontaneity” of the relationship going. I come home after work and I have flowers in random places in the home or at the front door so that when I walk out or come home I am surprised!

What is something you love about him that has completely changed your life?

What I love the most about Jason is his ability to find the balance and positive in any situation and remain spiritually grounded. I am always running a mile a minute and never have time to sit and take in life. He has come into my life and made me sit and take moments to reflect on all the blessings that God has given us and to be thankful!

What part of wedding planning made you crazy?

The RSVPs! I didn’t imagine this would be the most difficult part of the wedding planning however it was a pain.

What part of wedding planning could you not live without?

The part of the wedding planning I could not live without would be my mother’s input on the cake and décor.

What was your first thought the day after your engagement?

My first thought was, “Am I really engaged?! OH No, I have to plan a wedding, I am used to helping others but I am not ready to plan my own.”

What was your favorite part about the ceremony?

My favorite about the ceremony was the moment in which the doors opened and I saw my future husband as well as everyone who came for miles to join us on the special day.

What was your favorite part about the wedding?

My favorite part about the wedding was the reception. Our families, friends, and wedding vendors all came together to dance during the reception. It was a blast! The dancing moments eloquently captured are priceless.

Did you do any DIY? If so, what?

Yes! I made a custom matted sign and guest book which included one of our favorite photos taken by our wedding photographer, Taneisha Tucker (Photography with TK ).

Who were your wedding vendors?

Wedding and Event Planner: Shannel Aiken Weddings and Events

Photographer: Photography with TK

Wedding Cake: Cakes by Kim– McCalla, Alabama

Catering- Byron Rickard Catering– Birmingham, AL

Venue Decor and Flower Arrangements: Shannel Aiken Weddings and Events

Bridal Hair- Phase Two Hair Studio (Sheryl Johnson) – San Antonio, TX

Bridal Makeup- Tasha’s Makeup Beautique– Birmingham, AL

Bridal Dress- Impression Bridal

Bridesmaid Dresses- Alfred Sung

Grooms Suits- Men’s Wearhouse (Tailored Suits)

Custom Entrance Centerpieces – Balleria Mays- Bessemer, AL

Ceremony and Reception Location: Bessemer Civic Center, Bessemer, AL

What were your wedding colors?

Navy, Silver, and Ivory

What was your wedding theme?

Traditional with a touch of Southern

What is your favorite part about being married to each other?

Our favorite part about being married to each other is knowing that you will always have someone who will support you, laugh, and hold your hand through each phase of your life.

What did you learn about each other through the wedding planning process?

We learned during the wedding planning that Jason was actually the person who was the most interested and particular about the photography. I think he chose a great photographer might I add!

There were two important southern traditions incorporated in our wedding. The most important two things in a southern wedding: prayer and tradition! What’s a southern bride without prayer and pearls? One of the biggest things for me and my family is prayer. Prayer being a pivotal part of my family culture was incorporated before I walked down the aisle. I asked a close friend to lead a circle of prayer to bless those with us for the day and in the future. The second southern tradition that we did at the wedding was the something borrowed, something blue, something old, and something new. My father purchased the most amazing pearl necklace, I had blue “I do” crystals on the bottom of my shoes, and I borrowed a family members pearl bracelet she wore in her wedding.

Did you have any southern food on your menu? If so what and why?

Of course! We had shrimp and grits, buttermilk chicken tenders, smokehouse pulled pork, and more.

What southern decor did you include in your wedding?

We incorporated a traditional southern chandelier and draped backdrop for a touch of southern décor.

What did you love about being a southern bride?

The best thing about being a Southern bride was having my mother place me in my wedding dress, my father walk me down the aisle, all in my hometown of Alabama during the beautiful fall season, surrounded by family, friends, love, and joy.

March 9, 2016

Houston Wedding Glitters in Coral and Gold

Michiel Perry / Love & Dating / black bride, black groom, black love, black southern belles, black southern wedding, black women up dos, blended family weddings, coral weddings, glitter wine glasses, gold glitter decor, gold glitter letters, Sam Houston State University weddings, southern belle, southern wedding, Texas college sweethearts, Texas weddings / 0 Comments

Bride Name:

Jasmine (McCullough) Myers

Groom Name:

Matthew Myers

Wedding Location:

The Pavilion on Gessner in Houston, Texas

Wedding Date:

July 3, 2015

Alma Mater of Bride:

Sam Houston State University

Alma Mater of Groom:

Sam Houston State University

Current City where you live:

Euless, Texas

Hometown:

Houston, Texas

How did you meet?

Mutual Friends

How long did you date?

About 6 years

When did he propose?

January 10, 2014

When did you know he was the one?

When he loved my daughter as his own.

What part of wedding planning made you crazy?

Budget, I’m the spender, he’s the saver.

What part of wedding planning could you not live without?

My wedding planner

What was your first thought the day after your engagement?

OMG, I’m really getting married.

What was your favorite part about the ceremony?

Walking down the aisle with all eyes on me.

What was your favorite part about the wedding?

Watching our daughter steal the show on the dance floor.

Did you do any DIY? If so, what?

Hand glittered wine glasses as a gift for bridesmaids and letters used to spell out last name on sign in table

Who were your wedding vendors?

Venue: The Pavilion on Gessner

Invites: Deerest Designs by Ashley

Flowers: Lynda Kaye Murphy

Catering: Catering by Santana

DJ/Entertainment: DJ Dontizl

Dress: Panache Bridal & Formal www.panachebridalusa.com

Rentals:

Linen: What’s the Occasion Linens

Uplights: Reasonable Linens

Wedding Planner: Raeauna Bowen Events

Photographer: JJ Photography

Videographer: One 17 Films

Baker: Smallcakes

Make Up Artist: Naturally Glam by Rae

What were your wedding colors?

Coral, Gold, Cream

What is your favorite part about being married to each other?

Growing.

What did you learn about each other through the wedding planning process?

We learned that I have very expensive taste!

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February 2, 2016

Charleston MUA Brings the Beauty out of Belles

Michiel Perry / Career & Finance, Featured Southern Belles, Supporting our BSBs! / black bride, Black Makeup Artistry, BrushedBeauty, charleston, Flat Out Fabolous, MAC Cosmetics, south carolina, South Caroline Make Up Artists, southern belles, Southern Bridal Makeup, Southern Makeup Artist / 0 Comments

Valisha transformed her love for makeup into a growing career that makes women feel beautiful no matter what the occasion is! Read about this BSB’s business Brushed Beauty Artistry and how her skills help southern belles remain prim and proper.

Name:

Valisha C. Wigfall

Business Name:

Brushed Beauty Artistry

Alma Mater:

Francis Marion University

Hometown:

Lancaster, South Carolina

Current location:

Charleston, South Carolina

Contact Link:

@mrs_vdub on Instagram

What services do you provide?

Makeup for all occasions

Why did you decide to start a business?

I am very passionate about makeup artistry. I’ve always had the desire to become a M.A.C. artist. I was blessed with that opportunity and I am currently a freelance artist for the counter. After actually working there I realized my goal set for me there was to focus on sales. Being the artist that I am, I knew that my purpose was for the artistry. Therefore I began to build my clientele outside of M.A.C. and began my own business.

Before you owned a business, what did you do?

I was, and am currently still a Gross Technician at a pathology lab.

What is your favorite client story?

I had an older client who was so negative about makeup. She expressed to me how she hates it, she was afraid she would look clownish, “cakey”, and like a street walker. I explained to her that wasn’t my style of makeup and to please trust me. While I was doing her face she questioned every move I made and was giving me the meanest glare! After handing her the mirror she blurted out “Got D$#&, I look good girl, you took 20 years off me!!” The whole wedding party laughed hysterically. She began to get teary eyed and apologized and she said she never knew she could look that good. Her whole demeanor changed and she was definitely feeling herself. She hugged me so tight and gave me a nice tip!

Who are some of your business idols?

Of course Oprah. Not only because she is a billionaire but she never stops working. She’s always reinventing her brand and excelling at it! Also, I love her positivity and encouragement for everyday people.

Do you have any mentors? Who are they and how did they help you?

Alexandra Butler, a well-known makeup artist in Atlanta. A few years back I took a one on one class with her, to learn some of her techniques and tricks. Ever since that session, she has taken me under her wing and has helped me learn the in’s and out’s; the good, the bad, and the ugly of the artistry. Anytime I have a business question, product recommendation, anything— she is always there to help me.

What do you love about makeup?

I love how makeup can enhance your natural beauty, and can lift your spirits instantly. I love the creativity of makeup. I love the colors, the thousands of looks you can create by slightly altering colors… I could go on and on!

What are some of your tips for managing makeup during the humid seasons in the south?

Make sure to take care of your skin before and after wearing makeup. Cleansing, toning, and moisturizing will be your best friend. This alone will help to not have to wear as much product during these seasons. Also making sure to prime your skin, find the best primer for YOUR skin type, not just because someone else wears it! Also you can set your makeup with a finishing spray.

What are some of your favorite wedding makeup looks?

All my brides are different, but my favorite look would have to be a soft eye with natural looking lashes to enhance the eyes, glowing skin, and a fitting bold lip.

What tips do you have for managing makeup on a day to day basis?

It depends on your skin type, but if you prime your skin well, it should hold up throughout the day. If you have oiler skin, you can purchase oil blotting sheets and/or keep a pressed powder and your lip color with you to touch up.

What is your favorite thing about being southern?

I love how we are more personable here in the south. Good ol’ southern hospitality! You know holding doors for people, smiling at them if you make eye contact. Little things.

What is your favorite southern entrees or sides?

I love shrimp and grits. If its on the menu, I’m definitely going to try them. I even had a shrimp and grit bar at my wedding! And of course Mac and Cheese, but it has to be extra cheesy!

What is your favorite item or piece of clothing to wear/use while doing business?

I’m always in all black. My favorite would have to be my all black business t-shirt with my logo on it. It was gifted to me as a birthday present and I love it dearly!

Images courtesy of Aneris Photography

January 30, 2016

A Warm November Wedding in Charleston

Michiel Perry / Love & Dating / black bride, black southern belle, charleston weddings, south caroline weddings, southern, southern belle / 0 Comments

Take some time out this Saturday to enjoy this traditional Charleston wedding. This Carolina bred couple is nothing short of adorable and we are so happy to share their story. Start your weekend with a little love.

Bride Name

Shiquita Graham

Groom Name

Doug Hyman, II

Wedding Location

Charleston, South Carolina

Wedding Date

November 14, 2015

Alma Mater of Bride

Winthrop University

Alma Mater of Groom

Francis Marion University

Current City Where you Live

Knightdale, North Carolina

Hometown

Pamplico and Lake City, SC

How did you meet?

Through the bride’s best friend and Maid of Honor

How long did you date?

5 and a half years pre-engagement, 6 and a half pre-marriage.

How did he propose?

During a family trip to the mountains. He had plans to purpose on Mt. LeConte (the highest peak in TN), but the 14 inches of snowfall the night before said otherwise. He ended up proposing at Lake Lure.

When did you know he was the one?

It’s hard to say because our connection was so instant. I just knew that we would be together.

What is the cutest thing he has done for you without you asking?

Gosh, that’s like asking me to find a needle in a haystack! He’s good to me daily and I certainly don’t have to ask for it!

What is something you love about him that has completely changed your life?

The way that he loves God. I know that his love for God gives him the ability to love me in a way that I’ve never been loved. It’s amazing.

What part of wedding planning made you crazy?

All of it! I was never the girl who imagined what her wedding day would be like as a child! But, the end result was all worth it.

What part of wedding planning could you not live without?

Dress shopping had to be the thing I hated least. It was such a fun time with my family.

What was your first thought the day after your engagement?

Oh gosh, I have to plan a wedding!

What was your favorite part about the ceremony?

Walking down the aisle. I didn’t see anyone but him.

What was your favorite part about the wedding?

The reception! Does that count? It was just so much fun seeing family and friends and sharing such a momentous occasion with them.

Did you do any DIY?

Yes! I made all of the reception décor.

Who were your wedding vendors? (include website links)

Invites- Bridgette Suber- INKK

Flowers- Cooper’s Florist- Lake City, SC

Catering-Joe’s Catering Service– McClellanville, SC

DJ/Entertainment- The Painted Man Band and DJ E

Dress- Anjolique Bridal– Cornelius, NC

Rentals- Snyder Events– Charleston, SC

Wedding Planner: Ashley Nelson- A List Affairs

Photographer: Rhett Marley- Marley Photography

What were your wedding colors?

Gold, Blush, Marsala, & Moss Green

What was your wedding theme?

We didn’t really have one. We just wanted folks to be fancy!

What is your favorite part about being married to each other?

Knowing that he’s my one for the rest of my life, and I his.

What did you learn about each other through the wedding planning process?

I’m more of a Type A personality and he’s really trusts me when it comes to making decisions. He was very supportive.

December 8, 2015

Terri and Harry, Intimate Hilton Head Nuptials

Michiel Perry / Love & Dating, Uncategorized / black bride, black southern, black southern belle, blacksouthernbelle, love, love after divorce, love story, nuptials, omni resort, orchid, southern, wedding / 0 Comments

Here at #BlackSouthernBelle, we believe in the beauty of #love stories that center our families. Terri and Harry have been building up to this phenomenal moment for over ten years, solidifying their relationship with each other, and their loved ones. This gorgeous oceanfront ceremony highlights just how committed they are to one another, and how important the love of family is. It is our pleasure to share this #love story.

Bride Name

Terri Sims

Groom Name

Harry Starling

#Wedding Location

Hilton Head Island, South Carolina

Wedding Date

September 12, 2015

Alma Mater

Bride: Bennett College & Clark Atlanta University

Groom: Patrick Henry Community College

Current city

Greensboro, North Carolina

Hometown

Bride: Atlanta, Georgia

Groom: Callands, Virginia

How did you meet?

We met on a blind date initiated by a mutual friend at The Chop House Restaurant in High Point, NC.

How long did you date?

We dated for nine years. We both had been married before so there wasn’t any pressure or rush. I waited for my children to both graduate from high school. Harry was patient, and loves them children as his own. For those of you who have ever gone through a divorce, stay encouraged. There’s life afterwards and love is on it’s way.

How did he propose?

Harry proposed to me over dinner at The Chop House restaurant with family and close friends. This was the same restaurant where we had our first date.

When did you know he was the one?

I knew that she was the one after about a year of dating. He was very consistent, caring, loving, goal-oriented, and everything else that I longed for.

What is the cutest thing he has done for you without you asking?

Harry does so much for me, I can’t just name one thing. He always looks out for me and goes above and beyond in everything that he does. I am so appreciative and blessed.

What is something you love about him that has completely changed your life?

He taught me how to trust again, how to love again and be loved. How to take care of me first and allow him to do the same.

What part of wedding planning made you crazy?

The only part that made me a little nervous was living so far away having to plan by email and phone. Sites like Wedding Wire and The Knot were very helpful in the process.

What part of wedding planning could you not live without?

Having professional and licensed vendors including a professional wedding planner. The process is much smoother when you have the right people on your side.

What was your first thought the day after your engagement?

“Oh Lord, am I ready for this again?” was my first thought. Then I thought “Ok, I’ve been single twelve years. It’s time to marry the man of my dreams.”

What was your favorite part about the ceremony?

My favorite part was the kiss, because it was the first display of affection towards the rest of our lives together as husband and wife. Seeing Harry attempting to peep at me before the ceremony was really cute as well.

What was your favorite part about the wedding?

My favorite part of the wedding was everything. I really enjoyed the intimacy and being stress free. Originally, we planned to on the beach for the entire wedding day. Due to a bit of rain, we moved the ceremony inside of the beautifully decorated #Omni Resort. As soon as we said “I do,” the clouds parted and we were able to move to the beach as planned.

Did you do any DIY? If so, what?

I did use my own linens and candles, but did not want to get too bogged down with making things since we were traveling.

Who were your wedding vendors?

Invites: U R Invited by Regina Greensboro, North Carolina

Flowers: Floral Designs: Gardenias

Bouquets: Flowers by Sue

Catering: H & R Prime Restaurant Omni Hilton Head Resort

Violinist: Two Strings

Dress: Adriana Patell

Rentals: Purely Decor

Wedding Planner: Weddings & Events by T. Michelle

Photographer: Photography by Anne

Videographer: Byrds Eyes Entertainment of Charlotte, North Carolina

Venue: Omni Hilton Head Island Oceanfront Resort

Hair: Tamica Campbell of Pink Kotur Greensboro, North Carolina and Lacey Singleton of Upscale Hair Salon Savannah, Georgia

Makeup: Vernando Marshall of Savannah, Georgia

Wedding Officiant: Barefoot Weddings

What were your wedding colors?

Ivory, Blush, and Gold

What was your wedding theme?

Romantic Hilton Head Island Family Affair

What is your favorite part about being married to each other?

We are best friends. Waking up everyday knowing that we have each other’s support through the good times and bad is wonderful.

What did you learn about each other through the wedding planning process?

I’ve learned that Harry likes to take the backseat and let me do what I love. He didn’t question or voice his opinion much as he would typically do. He knew that it would be a memorable family event and trusted me to make the right decisions.

What #southern traditions did you do at your wedding?

Having the unity cross at our ceremony made it extra special. This was a representation of our southern roots and who we are as a family.

Did you have any southern food on your menu?

We had scrumptious southern style crab cakes–a popular Hilton Head Island entree. We knew that we could get some really good, fresh seafood being on the island. Thanks to the chefs at the H & R Prime Restaurant at the Omni Resort, the food was amazing.

What southern decor did you include in your wedding?

In the south, we love flowers and incorporated them in our wedding. Roses and hydrangeas are grown in our own backyards additionally we added my favorite flower: phalaenopsis orchids.

What did you love about being a southern bride?

I loved getting pampered all day, making lifelong memories with my children, and marrying my best friend. I absolutely loved being a bride, and if I could do it again with my husband I would.

Congratulations Mr. and Mrs. Starling!

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